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In an age of small meat as gods, the panic of aging is spreading on the Internet, and many people are under 30 years old and feel the midlife crisis has come.
To make matters worse, social media is running a major critique of "fat middle-aged people.". You'd better not wear a hand string, nor a beer belly, let alone a young man's business...... In a word, this is the most unfriendly age for middle-aged people.
It is at this time, a watch brand invited GQ met with Liang Wendao, Feng Yuanzheng, Wu Xiaobo and Wu Xiubo four middle-aged uncle. So GQ plans to talk to them about their worries, talk about the midlife crisis ahead, and talk about how to find their place in fast food times.
After a day long conversation, we found that not all the "middle-aged" love teach life experience. On the contrary, they do not like to pose as "elders", they also have confusion and anxiety, and have their own solutions.
Maybe growing old is not so terrible. All fresh meat will end up as uncle. The point is, have you trained a charming brain?. Here is an excerpt from the conversation between GQ and the uncles, and from the experiences and stories they share, the anxieties of our generation seem to be answered and comforted.
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Anxiety A
Every day so many hot spots, what should I chase?
Liang Wendao
You must be careful of all the news that easily causes emotion"
This is a time when every hot topic has exploded in social media, because the anxiety caused by excessive information is written on every face. And Liang Wendao doesn't play micro-blog or brush his friends. He still reads five or six hours a day until today. He's still reading the news through traditional media such as the big news service. This is his approach to the explosion of information.
"Of course, the traditional media have their own positions. So I always have a habit, if I know some newspapers and magazines about the position that is the case, in addition to see it every day, I will go to see those who stand with it different or even opposite those newspapers and magazines."
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Anxiety B
I began to suspect that I was not as strong as I imagined
Wu Xiubo
Self doubt is one of my younger brothers,
Never left me"
What is self doubt? For Wu Xiubo, "is it OK to wear it today?"" "Am I overweight again?" is a category of self doubt. Because of this, he felt that self doubt was no big deal, and that it was sometimes a personal pleasure. "Each kind of human nature of mind hangs on the body, like brothers and sisters. Self doubt is one of my younger brothers who never left me."
Liang Wendao
"I doubt myself every day, but I treasure it.""
Perhaps, like you, Liang Wendao will always fall into self doubt, and he will want to speak like that, is he accurate and precise? Is it right to do one thing?...... In his view, you should value your self doubt first. This uncertainty about yourself is actually valuable. It can help you look at yourself better, so there is room for correction and improvement.
Anxiety C
I can't find my own style, I don't like my appearance
Feng Yuanzheng
"Anyone can be an actor.""
Feng Yuanzheng hasn't liked his face all the time. He wanted to be an actor when he was young, but he ran into a wall because he looked so plain. "I was very thin, and not all teachers are performing with big eyes and bushy eyes, almost will say you how long it? You still go." This negative evaluation has made Feng Yuanzheng feel desperate.
Accident is, he now dug out thirty years ago himself starred in "youth sacrifice" photos, people around him said he was also a "Han Faner", "small meat", but that era of aesthetic is not the same. Feng Yuanzheng is especially grateful she saw director Zhang Xin warm, Feng Yuanzheng put in the crowd do not see is the characteristics of actor ", gave his first starring opportunity. Precisely because of this, Feng Yuanzheng, now a teacher, firmly believes that "anyone can be an actor", but first of all, you have to be yourself and accept yourself honestly.
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Anxiety D
I felt I had made no progress
Wu
"If a breakthrough can be achieved," he said,
Life becomes simple"
The biggest problem for middle-aged people, Wu Xiaobo says, is finding it harder and harder to break through. He can sit down and write a day in the ten years ago, did not focus on a problem for three or four hours; but now he can obviously feel the physical decline, more serious problem is that he began to feel the fear of self breakthrough.
He is writing a book, but his anxiety is that you have a book sold two million copies of the "agitate" for thirty years there, if this book makes readers feel no progress, will be a bad thing for him.
But even so, he still intends to write it down. "If a person can continue to break through himself, it is a great thing, even if he is middle-aged, he should not stop his desire for progress."."
Anxiety E
I become more and more concerned about other people's comments and feel pain
"Some reports are too lazy for me to read.""
Do you care about social media's praise? Mind what other people might think of you? Do you worry about being pointed out before you wear a dress? Will you drop the wrinkles before you send a P? Have you found that you care so much about the eyes of others that you are so miserable?
Wu Xiubo said, "if you know someone from someone else's assessment, it will be a maze.". "I can't report myself accurately, so I don't bother to read a lot about me." Interestingly, a friend often said to him, "I saw a report saying," what's the real thing about you? "" At this point, Wu Xiubo will intentionally sell Meng: "I am also curious, what is the matter?""
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In the criticism of "greasy middle-aged people", their most boring behavior is "like to teach life experience, and put on a good understanding of everything."". At this point, Wu Xiaobo's understanding is: I don't want to give young people advice, they grow in age and growth of the times I have been completely different, we are lucky and unlucky, I did not experience any constructive for them.
Indeed, we have not received any experience or advice. But we got the story and got their thoughts at this stage. In the full beauty little meat and greasy middle-aged people today, we lack, perhaps is the beacon. In the fast food times where gossip and false news can be seen everywhere, we need someone who may be focused on the scales.
Make up / Jun (Wu Xiubo), Xiao Tian (Feng Yuanzheng), Echo (Liang Wendao, Wu Xiaobo)
Watch worn (flat, large, in order):
Liang Wendao: the Chinese calendar Blancpain Watch
Wu Xiubo: Russell watch Blancpain platinum card
Feng Yuanzheng: Blancpain full calendar moon phase Watch
Wu Xiaobo: long power third pin classic Blancpain Watch
Clothing provided:
Wu Xiubo: dark blue velvet suit, shirt Emporio Armani
Wu Xiaobo: grey shirt, cheap replica Dior handbags UK Homme, grey suit Dunhill
Feng Yuanzheng: Black tweed suit, white shirt, Canali
Liang Wendao: private clothing?
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